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DR. LYN's PRACTICE BUILDING TIPS FOR COACHES & THERAPISTS

DR. LYN's PRACTICE BUILDING TIPS FOR COACHES & THERAPISTS

Volume 252 April 2026 GROW Training Institute, Inc.
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Dear Colleagues,

       I hope Springtime finds you well and prospering!  This month’s newsletter focus is on motivation.  I've worked on this my entire life, and have found what motivates people best, and how to really light the fire in their belly!  Whatever it is you've been wanting to do, putting off doing, now is the time to get started!

          I wish you a happy, healthy, and abundant practice,

        Lyn

     P.S.  If you haven’t already become a Certified Coach with GROW, this year would be the time to do so!   This month we're offering $200 OFF your CPC fees!  See details HERE.

     "Believe you can and you're halfway there."
– Theodore Roosevelt


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Feature Article

The Ultimate Motivator
By Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC

         Hello!  Are you awake, alert, alive, and enthusiastic?  Are you super excited about getting up in the morning?  Do you love your life?  Are you thriving?  Are you self actualized?  Are you happy and fulfilled?  Are you living in the present moment?  Are you full of awe and amazement?
         If so, you are probably highly motivated and driven toward achievement.  You’ve probably achieved most of the goals you’ve set out for, and are on your way to achieving more.  You also are probably highly motivated toward life improvement, life balance and overall life satisfaction.  Good for you! Keep it up!
         If not, why not?  You may be like many people, who are basically “sleep-walking” through life.  You may be in a “comfort zone” and don’t feel a need or drive to do much more than you’re already doing.  You may want more, but have not have had enough successes to encourage you to move forward and take risks.  You may have gotten discouraged.  You may have gotten distracted.  Then again, you may just have not yet found out what motivates you.
         The key to a happy, exciting, fulfilling life lies in your ability to realize your dreams.  The only way to achieve your dreams is to take action.  The only way to take action is to motivate yourself.  The only way to sustain your process and keep on your path to success is to stay motivated! 
        Motivation is difficult for most people, but it doesn’t have to be!  Some people were born with the gift of internal motivation (don’t they just irk you?).  Most of us have to work at it.  We have to learn it, sometimes the hard way.  My hope is that you can learn it an easier way.
         I had to learn the hard way. It took me a long time to break some of my self defeating patterns.  Mostly I “played small” because I didn’t believe I was worthy of having a great life.  Most of my early decisions were based on what I thought others wanted for me, and consequently spent most of my life trying to please everyone but myself.  One of the main reasons I wrote my book "Light Their Fire" was to save you some wasted time and agony.
         People are basically motivated by two things: pain and pleasure.  They are either moving away from pain or moving toward pleasure.  People generally are motivated to move more quickly when they are in pain, then move more slowly toward pleasure.  What I have learned from my 25 year study of motivation is that the ultimate motivator in the long run is your happiness.  The only true way to get motivated is to determine what makes you the most happy!  Happiness can be defined as contentment, fulfillment, satisfaction, enjoyment and pleasure.
         What makes you happiest is living your own dream.  You will never achieve your full motivation if you are living someone else’s dream for you.  You must find your own dream.  Your own dream comes from your innermost core.  In Eastern philosophy your core is defined as your chi.  Chi is your life force – life energy – where your power is derived.  When you are “living who you are” you will be your most motivated self. 
         Your dream can also be defined as your “higher purpose.”  To know your higher purpose, simply think about what you would like to leave as a legacy.  What would you like to leave the world when you are gone?  What would you most like to have others say about you when you are gone?  What words do you want to have defined your life?  How do you want to be remembered?  You are constantly discovering more about who you are -- what your passions and desires are -- what puts a fire in your belly.  The ultimate motivator is that fire inside of you that must be constantly kindled and flamed.  YOU are way too important in this world to not find your fire and use it for your happiness and success.  Then you can share it with others to improve their lives as well.  Ultimately, you will be improving the world in which you live for generations to come.

        You can find out more about how to motivate yourself and others in our CE course "Light Their Fire: Right & Wrong Ways to Coach & Motivate People."  See ordering information below.
          I'm committed to the survival and success of our profession.

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“"A good coach can change a game.
A great coach can change a life."
– John Wooden

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Right & Wrong Ways to Coach & Motivate People"
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INSPIRATIONAL TIP OF THE MONTH

INSPIRATIONAL TIP OF THE MONTH

         We often spend our days rushing from one task to the next, trying to keep up with everything that needs to be done.

        In the midst of life’s chaos, it’s easy to become so preoccupied with responsibilities that we begin to take our own gifts for granted.

        Slowing down is the key to letting a sense of gratitude really sink into your heart.

        There are countless reminders in your life that prove your efforts and persistence can lead to something beautiful.

        The ordinary moments you live today were once part of your unfulfilled desires.

        Now, they are part of your everyday reality.

        Appreciating all the good around you makes your life feel richer, even amidst the chaos.

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CPC News

Meet College Confidence Coach Richard Platt, GROW CPC
BecomingU.Coach

Student Mindset Coaching

         College is a powerful time to create the habits that shape the rest of your life — and the right support makes all the difference.

         As a confidence coach for college students, I use proactive, results-driven strategies that help students develop positive mindsets, emotional resilience and strong discipline for follow-through.

         I can help you build the foundation for your future through college and beyond.  Let's explore this together with a free intro call.For over 30 years, I’ve helped young men build focus, confidence, and direction by overcoming distraction and self-doubt through brain-based coaching methods, including Brainspotting.

         I have been involved in men’s work, personal development, and performance training for four decades.  I've facilitated individual and group programs, and led men’s teams focused on accountability, leadership, and integrity.

My coaching blends:

  • Biology and emotional intelligence
  • Brain-based change methods
  • Performance mindset strategies
  • Practical tools for focus and action

         I’ve also practiced martial arts for many years and hold a third-degree black belt in Aikido — “The Way of Peace” — which strongly influences my coaching philosophy: strength with balance, discipline with compassion.

         Beyond coaching, I work with race car drivers to improve performance using Brainspotting.  I stay active through trail running, ultimate frisbee, and spending time outdoors with my dogs and my amazing wife, Lorraine!

Contact Richard (415) 360-3450

richard@becomingu.coach

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Congratulate our New GROW CPC's!

Robert Wolcott, RN, CPC #2355

N. Tonawanda, NY

rwolcott@mcguiregroup.com

716-603-0073

Specialties:  Coaching for Nurses and Healthcare Professionals who are overwhelmed, exhausted and burned out.

Mission Statement:  "I help nurses who are experiencing burnot symptoms to empower and take care of themselves."

      "My first experience coaching a professional nurse happened early in my training, and it taught me more about the work than any e-books ever could.  I remember trying to relax before the session, feeling nervous even though I had studied the core coaching skills over and over.  I had reviewed ethics, informed consent, and the importance of staying within the boundaries of coaching instead of drifting into therapy or giving advice.  Even though coaching is not regulated by law, the standards I learned mean a lot to me. I wanted to show responsibly and with a clear coaching mindset.

      When the nurse arrived for her session, I could hear the exhaustion in her voice.  It was not the type of tired that comes after a long shift, but the deeper kind that comes from juggling responsibility, caring for others, and having little time left for herself.  She told me she still cared about her work but felt overwhelmed and unsure of her next steps.  She was not looking to be analyzed.  She simply wanted clarity and someone to talk to who would not judge her or tell her what she was doing wrong.

      I began with a question that felt simple but turned out to be powerful.  I asked her what she wanted to walk away with by the end of our conversation.  She paused for a moment and then said she wanted to feel like she has choices again.  That statement stuck with me because it showed exactly how much pressure she had been carrying.  During the session I focused on listening closely.  Nurses often have to be strong for everyone else, so giving her space to express herself without interruption made a difference.  My training reminded me to stay curious, keep the attention on her goals, and trust that she already had the ability to find her own answers.

      Slowly the tension in her voice softened.  She began to see that she was not trapped but overwhelmed by too many competing demands.  By the time we finished, she had identified one small but meaningful step she could take that week to create more room in her life.  It was nothing dramatic, just a realistic personal commitment that she felt ready to follow through on.  Before we ended the call, she said something that has stayed with me.  She told me the session felt different from therapy because she did not feel like she was being examined.  Instead she felt like she was actually moving forward.

      After the session ended, I sat quietly and let the experience sink in.  As a nurse myself, coaching another nurse, someone who spends their life supporting others, helped me understand the value of this work in a deeper way. It showed me why solid training and ethical standards matter and why coaching has become such an important option for professionals who want guidance without stigma or judgment.  That first session gave me confidence, but more importantly, it reminded me that coaching is not about being an expert.  It is about creating a safe space where people can reconnect with their own strengths and find direction again.  It was the moment I truly felt like a coach."

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