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By Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC

Includes Lyn's paperback book "The Magic of Detachment" and Quiz
Earn 10 C.E. Contact Hours


$77 + $20 Shipping & Handling ($97)

Credits:  10 CEU's

             Dr. Lyn has over 25 years experience as a LMFT and Certified Professional Coach.  Most of her clients have struggled with the concept of detachment and "letting go".  She shares with you exactly how to coach your clients on how and when to detach.  Based on her best-selling book, The Magic of Detachment, Dr. Lyn shows you how to detach with compassion, what to say to yourself, what to say aloud, and how to pull out of the situation while avoiding conflict and the emotional rollercoaster.  How to protect yourself with spiritual empowerment, how to show genuine love and concern, while detaching from your emotions.  This book is a must-read for anyone who is struggling with other people's problems.

Reviews on

A practical approach to ease yourself of the baggage of other people.--Life Is Good

I am at the point of having a better understanding of what the author speaks about because I have been journeying for a while in the field of psychology and self improvement as well as quite a bit of experience interacting with people.  This is very good writing. Nothing is black and white. Yet this book is filled with formulas that I do intend to use to ease my journey called life. I thank the author because I was using a lot of those methods unconsciously now I can be more conscious in their use. One thing is clear though we cannot do it for others since our life is our primary focus. Each must take responsibility for him or herself.--Bella

Thank you for giving me the gift of your words in the book magic of detachment. I COULDNT PUT it down all week and have gained so many empowering tools that have stayed in my thoughts daily. I RECOMMENDED IT TO A FRIEND. Having read so many books over the years I found this one very relevant and down to earth. You were obviously writing from experience and kept it real and workable.  THANKS again.  Look forward to reading more.--Tracey Carter

Here's what you'll get:

    How I Stopped Being a Whipping Post, Recovering People-Pleasers
    I Just Want to Feel Good
    What Is Detachment and How Do You Do It?
    Highly Sensitive People
    Detached Concern
    How to Protect Yourself from People Who Hurt You
    What's Really Wiping out All Your Energy
    If One More Person Tells Me They Need Me I Will Scream!
    The Six Toxic People in Your Life and How to Handle Them
    Emotional Vampires
    Drama Addicts
    The 11 Best Ways to Manage Toxic People
    Are You Putting Yourself Last?
    Validators vs. Invalidators
    Why Others Sabotage Us and How to Handle Them
    How to Handle Criticism without Anguish
    Choose Your People Well
    Your 4 Guiding Forces and How to Use Them
    Why You Worry and How to Stop It
    10 Tips for Handling Anxiety
    Navy Seals Stress Relief Tactics
    Fix the Broken Windows and Clean up Your Life
    Create a Strategy
    Choose Every Battle
    Have High Standards
    Why Detach?
    The 3 Main Obstacles to Detachment and How to Overcome Them
    Letting Go of People from our Past
    How to Confront Your Tightest Bonds
    Co-Dependent Meets Narcissist – The Bad Match
    Co-Dependency vs. Empathy
    The Cure:  Respect, Reality and Reciprocity
    Actual Helping Behaviors
    Boundaries That Promote Intimacy
    Stop the Insanity!
    Get Fed Up!
    What to Do When You’ve Reached Your Breaking Point
    How to Not Crack Under Stress
    Tough Love
    When to Amputate
    Normal Stages of Grieving
    8 Tips for Dealing with Other People’s Problems
    The Four Magical Words to Deal with Resistance
    Creating Authentic Power
    Turn "Learned Helplessness" into "Learned Empowerment"
    Your 10 Signature Strengths
    How to Be Compassionate Yet Detached
    Spiritual Empowerment
    Peace of Mind and Stillness of Heart
    Lessons from a Butterfly
    How to "Let Go and Let God"
    We Are All One Yet Separate
    Create Space for Your Own Best Life
    What Oprah Knows for Sure
    Finding Your Purpose
    Hope Is a Thing With Feathers
    Be Filled Up With Yourself
    Positive Affirmations are Your Magic Words
    Spiritual Practice
    Let It Go
    Comes the Dawn

I'm committed to the survival and success of our profession.

-Lyn Kelley, Ph.D.,MFT, CPC
Practice Building Coach
Clinical Member, CAMFT, AAMFT