Continuing Educational Seminars GROW Training Institute
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Recommended for Therapists & Coaches
Includes 75-page book and quiz for 10 C.E. Contact Hours


$67 + $20 Shipping & Handling ($87)

Credits: 10 CEU's

 With over 25 years experience as a Certified Relationship Coach and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Dr. Lyn draws from her own experience as well as her clients, family, and friends. It is vital to anyone who has suffered a relationship break-up or loss that they know the stages of grieving, how to heal in the best way, and how it affects them if they don't heal in this way.

Dr. Lyn explains how to break up with someone you're not really into, or you've lost your feelings for. How to break up with someone you are still in love with. How to handle it when you are the one who has been broken up with. Her strategies will cause you to move on as quickly as possible with dignity and optimism. Although she uses the female pronouns, the information is applicable to BOTH men and women.

Here's what you'll get:

Chapter 1: Normal Stages of a Relationship
Conflict and Negotiation

Chapter 2: When the Dream Dies
Fairy Tales

Chapter 3: How to Know If You Should Break Up
Your Five Guiding Forces
The 9 Worst and the 9 Best Character Traits for a Good Relationship
The 3 A's
Should We Just Take a Break?
What If He's a Great Guy But I'm Just Not That IN to Him?

Chapter 4: How to Do It When You Are the One to End It
How to End It When You're Just Not That IN to Him
How to End It When He's Not Right (or Good) For You
Can We Remain Friends?
Personal Boundaries
When to Amputate
You Don't Know a Man Until You Break Up With Him

Chapter 5: How to Handle It When Your Mate Is the One to End It
He Breaks Up With You But Can't Let You Go
The Addictive Relationship

Chapter 6: The Yo-Yo Syndrome
On Again, Off Again
Tough Love
Drop the Need for Revenge
The 7 Worst Things You Can Do
The 7 Ways to Move On

Chapter 7: Healthy Grieving

Sadness, Disappointment, Depression
How to Get Through the Pain

Chapter 8: How to Get Over It

Can Chemistry Be Changed?
Stop the Insanity!
Dating Detox
New Commitments

Chapter 9: Moving On and Thriving
Self Focus
What Oprah Knows For Sure
Chapter 10: Comes the Dawn
How to Let It Go

What Others are Saying About this Course:

"This book saved me! I just had a horrible breakup with my boyfriend of 3 years and this book got me through it. It made me realize that sometimes the right thing to do is the hardest thing to do. I'm moving on with my life now!
It was a pleasure speaking with you earlier and look forward to our next conversation. Thank you so much for this book. I can hardly to start reading it. Your books are interesting and just grab your attention instantly."

Best regards, Sue

5.0 out of 5 stars -- Best Book Ever!
"Lyn Kelly is the best author. I have read at least 5 of her books. Her advice is rock solid. Will enlighten you and open your eyes to the truth. I am a true fan. You won't be disappointed."

--Ashton, Review

5.0 out of 5 stars - Breaking Up
"I am still currently in "Dating Detox." I really loved this book. It was motivating and inspiring. I feel I can really get through this tough time and "Survive and Thrive!!" Thank you Lyn!!"
--Sarah, Review

I'm committed to the survival and success of our profession.
-Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC
Practice Building Coach

Clinical Member, CAMFT, AAMFT